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  • Difficult Emotions And Toxic Positivity

    Difficult Emotions And Toxic Positivity

    I find it one of the hardest things to do, to just sit with uncomfortable emotions. I want to talk about them and fix them. I… Read more

  • I Named My Inner Critic

    I Named My Inner Critic

    I gave my inner critical voice a name* and it’s made such a difference. I thought about her personality and what she would look like. For… Read more

  • What is the best time of day?

    What is the best time of day?

    Early morning. Watching anywhere as it starts to wake up. Everything moves slowly and quietly. The light is starting to brighten and if you’re in a… Read more

  • Find Your Passion In How Things Work

    Find Your Passion In How Things Work

    I have no idea how most of the things that I rely on everyday work. It’s a mystery to me how my electric kettle boils my… Read more

  • Building On and Moving On

    Building On and Moving On

    “She failed retirement,” laughed a retired work colleague as she spoke about her partner. Her partner had tried to retire for a year or so but… Read more

  • What are you keeping that no longer serves you?

    What are you keeping that no longer serves you?

    I’m the first to admit that teachers are incessant collectors. We can’t help it. In a chronically under-funded education system, elementary school teachers use scraps of… Read more

  • Good Enough

    Good Enough

    Be prepared to mess up. During lockdown I wanted to learn a new skill that would keep my hands and mind busy. Using good ole Youtube,… Read more

  • Find The Funny.

    Find The Funny.

    A Personal Lesson. Humour is essential to surviving the sad and difficult times in life and he understood that implicitly. Maybe it was surviving the Blitz… Read more

  • Being Kind To My Mind

    Being Kind To My Mind

    Do I ruminate when I resist getting out of bed? I was listening to a well-known mental health personality the other day and she recommended the… Read more

  • Learning To Say,“No.”

    Learning To Say,“No.”

    Working full-time gave me permission to opt out of things that I didn’t want to do. There wasn’t enough time to say, “Yes,” to everything. My… Read more

Hi, I’m Caroline.

The author smiling while wearing a burgundy t-shirt and a grey and pink crocheted cross-body bag.

I retired after a long career. And now what? It’s a disorienting time of life.

This site explores possibilities, digs into self-discovery, tries to understand the third chapter, and gathers others who are also searching for their next steps.

Most importantly, it’s a way to support each other as we go