Articles

There’s a lot to learn

and space to grow.


  • Cheerleading At Any Age

    Cheerleading At Any Age

    I love my cheerleaders, but I don’t tell them often enough. Our cheerleaders are the people who support us and cheer us on, when we embark… Read more

  • Going BIG

    Going BIG

    How much space do you take up in the world?  I am staying small. It’s a choice. After three years of the pandemic telling me to… Read more

  • A Day Of Wander

    A Day Of Wander

    A few years ago, I found myself alone downtown on a Saturday morning. I had to drop something off before nine. Done. Suddenly, there I was… Read more

  • The Un-Becoming

    The Un-Becoming

    Am I becoming a new me or just un-becoming the old me?  It’s a matter of perspective. Is the path forward after retirement a time to… Read more

  • Profile Picture Youth

    Profile Picture Youth

    Have you ever looked at photos of yourself and thought, “Wow, I look young in that picture?” I often keep my profile pictures for many years… Read more

  • Jumping Into The Unknown: Building Courage

    Jumping Into The Unknown: Building Courage

    There is scary-excitement that comes with trying something new. When I’m doing something challenging for the first time, it’s frightening to be faced with so much… Read more

  • Looking For A Mentor

    Looking For A Mentor

    Having a model to follow is a valuable way to learn. As a teacher, I knew that telling my class something would have a limited impact.… Read more

  • Choosing Solutions And Hope

    Choosing Solutions And Hope

    What you focus on, is what you will find. I’m a believer in focusing on solutions rather than problems. I see the problems but I tend… Read more

  • Can’t Avoid Triggers

    Can’t Avoid Triggers

    I recognize when my body goes into a stress response: tight jaw, overheating, nerves all a-buzz. I’ve spent time watching my body to recognize these physical… Read more

  • “All That We Are Is Story”

    “All That We Are Is Story”

    There is nothing like grief to focus our attention on the briefness of life. Our stories are so very short in the grand scheme of things.… Read more

Hi, I’m Caroline.

The author smiling while wearing a burgundy t-shirt and a grey and pink crocheted cross-body bag.

I retired after a long career. And now what? It’s a disorienting time of life.

This site explores possibilities, digs into self-discovery, tries to understand the third chapter, and gathers others who are also searching for their next steps.

Most importantly, it’s a way to support each other as we go