Articles

There’s a lot to learn

and space to grow.


  • Respect For My Body

    Respect For My Body

    I’ve been fighting with someone close to me. I’ve been annoyed when they interrupt my day with their constant needs. I’ve thought unkind things about the… Read more

  • The Selfishness Of Retiring, The Possibility of Volunteering

    The Selfishness Of Retiring, The Possibility of Volunteering

    I made my decision to retire almost a year ago. At the time I gave myself an arbitrary amount of time to flounder: a year. I… Read more

  • Try it. 

    Try it. 

    Anyone of a certain age will remember the Life cereal ad where the kids get Mikey to try it for the first time, even though “he… Read more

  • Out Of My Control

    Out Of My Control

    It’s very difficult to let go of control. As a teacher, I felt the pressure to “control my class” which really meant keeping them quiet and… Read more

  • The Power of Glimmers Over Gratitude 

    The Power of Glimmers Over Gratitude 

    Most people are familiar with the term, triggers. They are events or words or places that can cause a person to relive the stress of a… Read more

  • My Body Yells At Me

    My Body Yells At Me

    Why do I wait until my body is yelling at me before I take care of it?  We all carry stress in different parts of our… Read more

  • Ignore The Grind

    Ignore The Grind

    There’s no denying that daily grind of getting up and doing work. It’s ingrained in us from the time we start school. The idea of taking… Read more

  • No Information? I’ll Make Up A Story

    No Information? I’ll Make Up A Story

    Sometimes the most reasonable answer is not the one I consider first, when faced with a problem. I like to tell myself stories first. This just… Read more

  • Big Top Emotions

    Big Top Emotions

    As I have the privilege of growing older, I gather more loss. Grief is difficult to talk about and something many people shy away from, but… Read more

  • Letting Go Of Worries About Important Tasks

    Letting Go Of Worries About Important Tasks

    There are things that are urgent and important. I will do those immediately. But then, there are things that are not urgent but important, like taxes… Read more

Hi, I’m Caroline.

The author smiling while wearing a burgundy t-shirt and a grey and pink crocheted cross-body bag.

I retired after a long career. And now what? It’s a disorienting time of life.

This site explores possibilities, digs into self-discovery, tries to understand the third chapter, and gathers others who are also searching for their next steps.

Most importantly, it’s a way to support each other as we go