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There’s a lot to learn

and space to grow.


  • Do What Scares You

    Do What Scares You

    It’s easy to become complacent and settle when you retire. You get pushed along by the rhythm of the day, and suddenly a week, a month… Read more

  • Healing My Relationship With Plants

    Healing My Relationship With Plants

    I found myself talking regularly to the orchid in my bathroom, when it bloomed during the dead of winter. Its bright yellow and fuchsia blooms lifted… Read more

  • Why persistence matters when you don’t see any gains

    Why persistence matters when you don’t see any gains

    It’s hard to start new things, but it’s often even harder to persist with them, especially when it doesn’t look like you’re achieving anything. As a… Read more

  • Truly Listening

    Truly Listening

    I don’t know why it surprises me, but I still have so much to learn. Often the stuff I have to learn is not new stuff.… Read more

  • State Your Age

    State Your Age

    It’s a little disconcerting to be at a family gathering and be faced with the fact that you’re part of the oldest generation there. I remember… Read more

  • Greeting Cards Insult

    Greeting Cards Insult

    Spring brings many birthdays in my life and I find myself doing the most difficult of tasks: shopping for greeting cards. Greeting cards are supposed to… Read more

  • A Time To Grieve

    A Time To Grieve

    Sometimes life gets super-messy. There is nothing like a death in your close circle to stir things up. Everything gets put on hold as you try… Read more

  • Enjoy The Process

    Enjoy The Process

    It’s a great relief to many teachers that April 1st lands on a Saturday this year. No worries about being pranked by your students and no… Read more

  • All The Lonely People

    All The Lonely People

    When I look closely, I can see them sitting in coffee shops, wandering around grocery stores and waiting for the bus: lonely people. Lonely people can… Read more

  • The Multi-Generational Home

    The Multi-Generational Home

    It has been said recently, that this latest generation of new adults has it worse-off financially than several of the generations before them.* Those of us… Read more

Hi, I’m Caroline.

The author smiling while wearing a burgundy t-shirt and a grey and pink crocheted cross-body bag.

I retired after a long career. And now what? It’s a disorienting time of life.

This site explores possibilities, digs into self-discovery, tries to understand the third chapter, and gathers others who are also searching for their next steps.

Most importantly, it’s a way to support each other as we go