A few years ago, I found myself alone downtown on a Saturday morning. I had to drop something off before nine. Done. Suddenly, there I was with my notebook, a novel and a water bottle in my bag on a sunny, warm morning, and no plans for the rest of the day. No one needed me. Freedom! I took the day to explore. It was a powerful and enriching experience that I highly recommend.
It’s A Day By Yourself
I’ve done it again regularly over the years and it brings me such peace and contentment. It is important to go alone, without friends or pets to distract you.
Here are my three rules for a wonderful day of wander:
1. Public Transit
The first rule for exploring is always take public transit. I was so glad that I didn’t have to pay for parking, or worry about wandering too far away from my car, that first Saturday. A car is a tether that inhibits a good wander.
2. Let Curiosity Lead You
The second rule is to explore any places that look interesting to you. That Saturday, I was drawn to a farmer’s market in the square outside city hall. Then, I wandered through Chinatown and then over to a library with an antique collection of children’s books. I didn’t plan where I was going to go. I didn’t use Google Maps or touch my phone. I stayed alert as I walked and looked for things that captured my curiosity. It’s ok to get lost. (Tip: libraries have AC and washrooms.)
3. Take Breaks
The third rule of wander is to take breaks. Lots of breaks. Stop on a bench and read for a while. Grab a drink and sit on the grass in a park. Pull out your journal and write in the library. Sketch, if you’re inclined. Eat when you’re hungry. Eat lots of snacks. Sit and watch the world go by.
A Nourishing Day
One day to wander. It magically nourished my soul. When I was tired, I hopped back on public transit and came home.
Have you ever done this? What’s been your best experience? Comment below.
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Sounds like a good idea for an ‘artist date’. Julia Cameron (The Artist’s Way) would approve!
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It makes an excellent artist date.
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