We All Need Play

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Play has often been reserved for children and considered something superficial once our lives are filled with grown-up concerns. As an elementary school teacher, I arranged my science lessons as play-based investigations. The students would have fun exploring stable structures and quickly learn how to create a secure base with the materials. However, play is not just for kids. It’s an essential part of our learning and emotional wellness for the rest of our lives.*

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Process Over Product

Recently, I’ve returned to playing with paints in my spare time: creating prints and dabbling with water colours. The key to playing is not to worry about the end result. That’s not the important part. It’s all about the process. I learned this from my kindergarten students. 

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When I asked my kindergarten students to tell me about their artwork, they would say something completely different about it from one day to the next. “It’s Mom.”  “It’s the popsicle I had.” I realized that the final product meant very little to them. They’d often forgotten what they had created. It was the act of creating that was important: the play.

Different Play Personalities

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There are different types of play personalities.  You may be a collection of several types. I’m a creative, a Kinesthete (moving your body in dance or yoga), a storyteller and a sometimes, joker. You might be a collector, an explorer, a competitor or a director. **

Plan Time To Play

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As with all things in a busy day, play doesn’t just happen unless you are intentional about it. You can plan a session (exploring a new place, adding to your collection), or be spontaneous and dance when the music starts. You just need to be open to doing it.

With A Playful Attitude Come Health Benefits

With play, comes more creativity, lower stress and a more positive outlook on life. A playful attitude even helps us learn difficult concepts more quickly.

Something that looks like a difficult task — writing a book or working on a complex jigsaw puzzle — might be play. If the person doing it is engaged and feeling content with the challenge, then it is play; if the person is feeling bored, irritated, or burdened by the task then it is not play.”*** 

Play allows us to find respite from stressful, product-oriented work and to recharge with joy and lightness.

Who couldn’t do with more play in their life?

To find your play personality click here for a simple quiz.


*https://www.forbes.com/sites/daniellebrooker/2019/01/31/get-playfulness-right-and-you-can-rest-easy-tonight/?sh=4d46b5b6621e

**For a full list of play personalities click here. 

***https://www.nifplay.org/play-for-you/make-play-part-of-an-adult-life/


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I'm a life coach discovering the opportunities and growth in midlife and beyond.

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