Banishing The “Shoulds”

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I didn’t question how I spent my time and energy for most of my life. I just did the things: work, family, running a home. I was on automatic pilot.  There were plenty of signals in society that pointed me to what I was supposed to be doing. “It’s the right thing to be successful,… Continue reading Banishing The “Shoulds”

We Need You

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The truth is that we need you. In a world that is in very rough shape these days, we need you.  We need your talents, your skills, and your perspective. You have a wealth of knowledge behind you and decades in front of you. Unlike the younger ones who are just trying to frantically balance… Continue reading We Need You

The On-Call Retiree

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A person retired, is a person on-call. You have the flexibility to do things when you want to, and to be available when others are working. As a result, the world has a way of filling your time without you making a conscience choice.  The Obligations Creep In I’ve seen this happen. At first you… Continue reading The On-Call Retiree

Why Do I Need Purpose?

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Find something that you can do slow, that you can do forever and still love it, that still gives you meaning.” – Christina Koch, Artemis II astronaut Why do I need purpose after I retire?  Can’t I spend the rest of my days enjoying my life – just living it?  What’s wrong with that?  I… Continue reading Why Do I Need Purpose?

The Caring Entrepreneur Isn’t An Oxymoron

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As a solo entrepreneur, I work in a different space. It’s unfamiliar to most people who travel along the corporate hallways of business. It moves at a different pace, it has different objectives, and it needs different communities of support. It’s not the space of power points, HR, and team-building exercises. Communities where those tools… Continue reading The Caring Entrepreneur Isn’t An Oxymoron

Personal Long Range Plans/Vision Board

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At the beginning of 2025, I created a Personal Long Range Plan for the year.  Some might call it a Vision Board. It was my first time making one. When I messed about with collage and paints to create it during the quiet days before New Years’, I didn’t realize how helpful it would be.… Continue reading Personal Long Range Plans/Vision Board

Are You Successful?

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Re-thinking Success And Self-Worth How do we measure success these days when it’s not as easy to identify using wages or position? I didn’t realize until recently that I was measuring my success in numbers, trying to quantify it. I also didn’t acknowledge how much my self-worth was connected to my measure of success.  … Continue reading Are You Successful?